STRIP AT HOME
Tips for women and for men from
Tony Avanti, professional male stripper
Even if your partner is accustomed to being tantalized by the finest exotic dancers, it can never compare to a 'for your eye's only' between the two of you. There are no rules of conduct...and the opportunity is there for you and your partner to complete the act that the dance is intended to arouse.
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Tony Avanti recommends starting with popping some champagne and following these basics.
There are four components you must have:
costume, music, movement, and desire.
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What are you going to wear?
Beginning a dance wearing provocative eveningwear has much more impact than popping out in your best lingerie. For the ladies, short skirts or form-fitting stretch slacks. On top, short cropped button blouse or a soft stretchy knit with peek-a-boo belly is hot! If you choose solid contrasting tops and bottoms, the focus will be on how good you look in your cloths and not how your cloths look on you
What about shoes? Not many women enjoy trying to dance in stiletto heels but lets face it, most great works of art are best displayed a-top some kind of pedestal. Besides you can pop them off once you've made your tantalizing entrance.
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| O.K. guys, loose fitting dress slacks...you don't want to be stumbling out of your tight pants.-And wear a belt, it's a great prop. On top, go with a buttoned shirt. It's much easier to look hot pealing a shirt off your to die for shoulders than yanking a pullover off your face. And what about shoes? I don't know, you decide, but I do know that even Fabio is going to look like a dork trying to get his socks off, so leave them in your dresser drawer |
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All right now, you're looking hot, dressed to the nines. Now you need some tunes. In striptease your music can be half of your performance. Never mind the words. Let the beat speak to your partner. Pick music that sounds sexy to you. Something that you just can't sit still to. |
| A good rule: Be down to your scanties by the end of the second song, about 7 to 10 minutes.The third song and any that follow should be slow and stirring...the kind that make you feel like touching someone or being touched. (It's best not to have any breaks between songs so make a tape if possible.) |
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Yeah, now we're getting in the mood! So, let's set it up. Where is your stereo? In the living room? -In the kitchen? In the bedroom?....Wherever..... |
Put a chair in the middle of the floor.
Not a big cushy one...grab a 'strait-up, pay attention, dinning room chair'.You want your partner feeling a bit un-easy. |
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| If you're comfortable with it, eye contact is very powerful. Dancing for someone is not bounding all over the room. Pick a spot in front of you partner close enough to touch fingertips with each others arms extended. Ladies, stand with your feet together or less than shoulder width. Guys, keep you legs apart with your feet shoulder width or more. Imagine standing in a box with your feet planted, just pivoting and turning within it. |
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| Leave the footwork to Fred Astaire. Let your body interpret the music from your hips, outward. Vary the tempo of disrobing. You should ease buttons through their slots and zing a zipper. Slide your shoulders out of your shirt and then pitch it to the ground. If you feel hot, you'll look hot. Think about how your clothes feel coming off across your skin. Look at your partner and think about the best sex you've ever had. Close your eyes and move your hands over your skin in a way that feels good to you, not the way you think looks sexy to your partner. |
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IMPORTANT NOTE: Ladies, don't boing out of everything. Cover up with hands or arms while removing undergarments and reveal their contents caressingly. Guys, rubbing your chest, arm, stomach, and thighs is really sexy. |
 Remember the condoms! Ladies and Gents
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NOW let go of the last of those inhibitions. Have another long, hard sip of champagne.
Sweep in behind your partner. Tease away their desperate groping. Move around the chair while touching and caressing. Straddle your partners lap and let the passion and desire between you take control!
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